许晴短发发型:“如果你不爱她就应该拒绝她”和“爱她就要好好的对待她”英语怎么说？

如果你不爱她就应该拒绝她
you shouldn't accept her, if you you don't love her.
（这个表示这个人已经接受她了，讲当初的事情）
you are going to refuse her, if you don't love her.
(这个表示这个人还没有作决定，讲将来的事情)

爱她就要好好的对待她
treat her well if you love her.
（比较生硬，但也表示好好对她）
please take care of her if you love her.
（这里take care of 不是单单指照顾的意思，好好待她就是要照顾好她）

If you don't love her, then you should refuse her. If you love her, then treat her well.

If you do not love her, you should refuse her.
Since you love her,please do treat her well
我用的强调结构,这样表达的意思强烈点.

●楼主:你好,正确的译文是
If you did not love her ,you would refuse her.
If you loved her ,you would take care of her carefully.

●翻译提示:
根据汉语语意,采用虚拟语气更贴近,照顾,对待....
用take care of sb carefully,
表示照顾,对待,呵护,珍惜,都可以这样用的
特别是,take care of love carefully
好好对待爱情,言外之意就是珍惜爱情,
take care of sb
表示呵护某人,特别是亲人了

●翻译爱情的东西，语言要简练,层次要发人深思,意境深刻,易于大众理解,这样的翻译是比较好的翻译,互相切磋!

●额外奉献
(我自己创作的主打爱情诗篇,true love feeling真爱的感觉)

True Love Feeling

Love is a game which belongs to the person who is brave.
爱情是勇敢者的游戏
Do not be afraid of being hurt feeling,
不能怕被伤害，
having to accept the ache.
也不能怕痛
Just like joining the "Cup World of Love",
就象参加爱情的世界杯一样。
entering the finals ,
进入决赛的
there is no failture,
不存在失败者
Only having one champion,
冠军只有一个
the runner-up have to face to music,
亚军必须面对失败
to understand what is a loser in the front of the Judge of Love.
在爱情的考官面前去理解什么是失败
He has learned how to take care of the Love carefully,
他已经学会如何珍惜爱情，
that's harvest which he got it.
那就是他的收获了
no matter who she choose him as her boyfriend,
无论她选择谁做她的男朋友
I knew that I was a good man.
我必须知道我是个好男人
Not being a wonderful,
不是我不优秀
Only her own choice.
仅仅是她的个人选择
I have a couragement to face it,
我有勇气面对一切
Having to chase her,
但我必须要全力追赶
Until i am ......
直到最后！

Take her or leave her.