不要太安逸的生活说说:她又是怎么想的呢?

Hi Ren Da,
very glad to receive your letter! it's totally true we can not really know each other unless we meet and spend SOME time together. right now we basically know nothing about each other. I even don't know what you look like. chatting online in my opinion is not really useful in knowing other people. writting letters is not working either, especially for people like me who is not good at writting.
I sincerely invite you to take a short vacation in Shanghai. this trip, after a whole long time of trivial, tedious office work, can be enjoyable. it's more than meeting people. I am afraid i am selling my proposal too hard. ^ ^
I hope i can have my vision correction done in shanghai. to take off glasses is my biggest wish. i am serious about it and prudent on it. I'll do more study and choose a good doctor for me. I'd also like to spend as much time out of the short break with my mom, dad and sisters as possible. i'll stay in my second sister's home, which is in Nanchang, for a while. we are very close. So i can hardly find time to travel. please understand me.

have a nice week,
Mike

非常高兴收到你的来信。除非我们见面并花些时间在一起，否则我们真的不能了解对方。现在我们基本上一点都不了解对方。我甚至不知道你长什么样。我认为，在网上聊天对于了解一个人，并不真正有用，写信也没有用，特别是对于像我这样一个不擅长写信的人。

From: "Ren Edith" <edith726@hotmail.com>
To: michguo@hotmail.com
Subject: 你好
Date: Sun, 23 Apr 2006 13:15:42 +0800

你好！

一直想跟你聊聊，可总是很难彼此都有时间。。。所以我只好用写信的方法来替代了，
希望你有空能尽快回复我。

不知道你家里是怎么跟你说的，李阿姨把你介绍给我是想让我们能有机会发展感情，可
我们离的这么远，而且沟通的也很少。这次你回国，我也有个短暂的假期，李阿姨希望
我们能见个面。。。可这些毕竟是我们2个人的事情，我想知道你的态度，对于这件事
情你有什么想法？

我知道你比较注重外貌，可我只有对外表没有什么要求，我更注重性格和处世态度。我
有典型北方女孩的性格，说话直来直去，不喜欢拐弯抹角浪费时间。我不难看，可也不
是美女。其他情况你也大致有个了解。。。我不喜欢化妆，就如同我不喜欢伪装自己一
样，因为我希望喜欢我的人喜欢的就是真实的我。

如果你对此事并不认真，就直接告诉我，免得浪费彼此时间。
如果你想见一面，怎么见，在哪。。。再商量。

这么直接希望没有吓到你，呵呵~

任达

Edith,

Thanks for agreeing to help me with gaming company alliance work. I
will let you know as soon as President Yang gives the green light.

Pei-Hwa

Hi Ren Da,
you're so nice!
of course we can chat quite a lot. hope you'll stay for a longer while in Shanghai. you can join us if they (my sister and brother in law) decide to drive to nearby town (ZhouZhang?) for sightseeing. I don't know if they have any plan though.
where are you gonna stay when you are in Shanghai? at aunt Li's house? is it inconvenient?
my phone number in Shanghai will be (21)6460-4859. of course it's my sister's home number. I'll be arriving in shanghai on Apr 28.

Mike

From: "Ren Edith" <edith726@hotmail.com>
To: michguo@hotmail.com
Subject: RE: 你好
Date: Mon, 24 Apr 2006 11:23:13 +0800

hi,

好吧，我可能5月初去上海，也许不回家了。。时间比较短，我大概会在上海短暂停留1
，2天，顺便见见我的同学，她住上海。。。之后如果有可能的话我想自己出去旅行。

老实说，我们离的那么远，即使你回国我们还是一个南一个北，真不知道长辈们是怎么
想的。。。呵呵~
不过多一个朋友也好，如果我去上海，你有时间的话就聊聊吧，我也回国很久了，还挺
怀念在国外留学的日子。。。 ：）

任达

发件人 : Michael Guo <michguo@hotmail.com>
发送 : 2006年4月29日 11:07:38
收件人 : edith726@hotmail.com
主题 : i am home now

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Hi Edith,
how are you?
i am home now, finally. the trip was smooth and nice. i arrived at around 9:30 last night. overal it's great feeling to be here. ^ ^
i woke up at 5 this morning. it's familiar scene outside: cars passing with horns tapped, more people on the road in the early morning. things are moving. you feel life. there is one more thing that is familiar too: the sun feels so mild because the dust in the sky blocks lots of sunshine.
so basically i'll just stay home, take some rest today. will look at what to do later.

Mike

From: "Ren Edith" <edith726@hotmail.com>
To: michguo@hotmail.com
Subject: RE: 你好
Date: Wed, 26 Apr 2006 14:53:33 +0800

hi Edith,
today i've been doing the trivial things people usually do before travel - going to the bank to fix something, doing last day shoppping (bought some candies, choclate for my nephew), calling car-rental company, and of course mostly, packing. i still went to swim this afternoon. i'll continue to do the packing later tonight.
tomorrow i am going to montreal to take the aircraft. it's Northwest's flights: montreal-detroit-tokyo-shanghai. i am excited about flying home.
i'll write/talk to you more when i am back home!

Mike

hi,
回来你还要倒时差 :)
我的票还没消息,宾馆也在查...
祝你旅途愉快
EDITH

我不知道各位网友看完这些信心理是怎么想的 我就是她的BF 任达 我已经跟你说过了 我们结束了 你觉得你见了他后 如果因为种种原因你们没成 你又来找我我还会要你吗?不是我当你是什么 而是你当我是什么 也许我这次把你的私人信笺发在这里很过分 跟你说声抱歉把!以前你每次发帖子说我们的问题 我都没有回应 但这次不一样 我不要你 是你负了我 去找你的幸福把 我不会阻止你 并且也能理解 我真心的祝福你 希望你找到你的幸福 还有,那个人是上海人 我才来上海半年也不是很熟 让他带着你玩把 希望你们玩的开心!祝旅途愉快!(PS:我的心也被你伤透了,在这之前 能让你五一来上海看我 对我来说只是个梦 而且你也有很多理由 说什么必须回家拿衣服还说你的家人非常的想念你 可你竟为了一个陌生的人来了上海 我们之间还有什么好说的呢 梦醒了 该面对现实了.还有一点 你还是在跟两个以上的男人保持着这种联系.我无话可说了)好运把 我们有过回忆,好的就常记着
回答者：xiemeiluo - 试用期 一级 4-29 16:20

我的全部问题都在这里 谢谢大家有时间看这么多字 辛苦了

你得他自信吧
我知道那男的的心态，因为自己不怎么样，所以出现了“能成就成，不成拉倒”他已经失去了自信，开始听天安排了。你得给他自信。

爱一个人好难，不要轻意放了，希望你能幸福，